ok...so let's take a break from my story and actually talk about "breaks" for a minute. I mean really. When someone says they want a break what do they actually mean? is it that they want an excuse to have freedom? or they actually can't stand looking at you at that time or what? they want it to be over but don't have the courage enough to actually say that? i am willing to bet that it could be any of those. but let me say something to the girls for a minute....LADIES if a man needs a break GIVE IT TO HIM. no man likes to be pushed or told what to do.TRUST ME. if you try then you will be sitting by yourself the very next weekend.even if he loves you a mans' freedom can never be touched(granted he should let it go a little) thats a promise. As mush as you would like to throw something at him for being the boss in the relationship you still must respect his wishes. So what do you do when he calls for one? well here are some options....first you could treat it like Ross did on "Friends" and take that break as an opportunity to go hook up with the one fantasy you have always wondered about OR put yourself into your work OR school OR just have the longest ladies night you have ever had and extend it out a week or so......OR you could clean everything out of your house and take it to charity or sell it on ebay. There are plenty of things to do when you are forced to take a break from the person you want to spend every moment with. You lived a life without him before, no problem leaving him out again. So remember GIVE HIM SPACE. even if it means having no one to tell your stories to at the end of the day or no one to support you in going to the gym or no one to tell you that you have worth......tell yourself that . we can do it and though it is amazing to have some one stand by your side to support you it doesn't mean that you can't do it alone for a few days......i am not a doctor...ha ha but i am a girl of experience and as i write this i also realize that i am learning at the same time that i share it with you.negativity attracts negativity and positivity attracts positivity. in the very moment i have decided to be hateful HE just as quickly turns on me so be careful. what? you need someone to talk you through it? oh call me i can help.....